Discovery of a trendsetter-reality-show, Sarwar Ahuja, gets candid in an interview and reveals about his no-more single status and shares his views on relationships.

How was your first relationship?
I met her in college. It was typical teenage love story. I use to prepare cakes for her and pleased her with gifts. Generally materialistic things do not matter but my timings did wonders. First relationship is the best thing that happens to anyone.

What did you learn from your last relationship?
I grew as a better person. I have learnt to respect women more. It has really made me very giving.

Encounter with Gays?
When I came to Mumbai, I didn't know about gays. I was not aware of how they approach people. One day I was sitting with a friend for a coffee. ‘He' just walked in and was trying to be nice and friendly. But as I tend to give don't-mess-with-me vibes to everyone he could not try any further.

Do you have commitment phobia?
NO, I am seeing some who is not from the industry and it is almost a committed relation. I am not making it public because it is not the right time as you never know in a relation how things will go forward.

Any embarrassing experience on a date?
Often; I use to lie to my parents that I am going for tuitions and then get caught sitting in a café with my girlfriend. "Oho achcha bete ullu banake gaya...kaha tha tution ja raha hun and you are sitting in a café". Even now I lie because when you are in a relationship you like to take risk, its fun. It's a sweet lie, isn't it!

What's your opinion on ‘Public Display of Affection'?
I am not shy about moving ahead and showing some affection in public. It is all about making her feel special no matter wherever you are.

Can you dare to bare onscreen?
To a certain extent where it is acceptable by my parents and people I love.

One Night Stand or Live-in relationship?
None. I don't see a reason to have fun with someone whom you are not in love. One should spend together as much time as they want, but the kind of society that we live in; guys are never blamed for anything but it constantly reflects on a women's life even after the relationship is called off.

What do you prefer Beauty or Brains?
Brains with good tinge of beauty

What's your opinion on an open relationship?
Ridiculous