That sounds strange does it not, but believe you me, there are ways to get down and dirty and very very charged up, without actually doing IT. Take a look how!
On Phone
Oh, this one is an old tested and tried technique, but as erotic now as 25 years ago. Talk dirty, fantasize, get wild (within limits, of course). The best is that both partners are responsible for their own pleasure, so the pressure is off!
Sensual Massage
A slow and sexy massage is just so ummmm... use a nice essential oil, turn the lights down low and let your hands do the gliding ant the talking!
Role Playing
You and your partner can really let go when you get into a role... let yourself into situations and places you would never let yourself go into when you are being yourself ! Go on, try it!
Costumes
Courtesan, farm girl, leather clad rock star... she can be any or all of these, and HE can be a tiger, a mechanic, a professor! Turn on? You bet!
Talk Erotic
You can tell a dirty story almost anywhere.... its a sort of erotic mental stimulation tat can turn both of you on, big time. If you feel you are not good at making up stories, no worries! Simply find a magazine, excerpts from a book or pages from a website to suit the tastes of your partner!