And here’s some good news! Contrary to the widely held belief that men lose interest in sex after some years, Jeffrey Bernstein, Ph.D., author of Why Can't You Read My Mind? says that men are actually genetically engineered for long-term lusting. But that is subject to the fact that you “have to make a strategic effort to trigger that craving in him once you're in a relationship because the spark in your bond won't last if you neglect it."
Chant his name
Nothing can compare to the rush of adrenalin your mate gets when you chant his name. Just hearing his name hikes up his lust because what you are saying is 'I'm thinking about you only… no one else'. Men just adore hearing that.
But blurting out his name any old how is not going to get him going. You have to make it meaningful. For example if you are at a party or on a drive, say something like , “You know…John…how that makes me feel.”
Another way of getting him to completely focus on you is to whisper or coo his name to draw his completely on to you. "When Harry and I are making out, sometimes I feel like his attention is not a hundered percent on me." says one girl. "That’s when I moan his name, and things really get moving. It really focuses him on me totally.”
Touch him when he doesn’t expect it

So now, don’t ask him to pass the dessert, lean across, brushing his arm and take it. Don’t ask him to move when you have to go past. Lean into him as you pass him by. Things are going to really rock for you.
Don’t Tell All
Suppress the need to give details about your day. Unlike women, men are not really interested in the nitty-gritty of who said what and how. They find it boring and tune out.
But if you edit your talk and you'll make a discovery: The less you tell him, the more interested he'll become in your day-to-day activities. Just throw a titillating sentence at him and let him take the bait. For instance, while you are conversing with him, tell him what happened in the end and let him ask for the details. For instance, say to him, “I bumped into my old friend this afternoon” or “I got a raise.” And then be quiet while he’s dying to know the details.