Reality TV star Kourtney Kardashian has warned her former lover Scott Disick that she will pay heed to his pleas for a reconciliation only if he abides by some rules that she has set.

The "Keeping Up With the Kardashians" star, who has children Mason, 5, Penelope, 3, and Reign, 11 months, wants to be sure that Disick has changed his partying ways.

"There are ground rules he has to abide by, cutting off all club appearances, staying sober, being a father who's there more and being a part of the family," Disick's friend and manager David Weintraub told Heat magazine, reports femalefirst.co.uk.

Kourtney also wants Disick to avoid contact with his ex-lovers and find new ways to make money.

"He has to show Kourtney he can handle this and not revert back to his old ways," Weintraub said.

Since their split earlier this year, the 36-year-old has been showing off her slender and toned figure on social media. This was "hurtful" to Disick.

"If you see your ex looking beautiful and you realise you've made some poor decisions, it's hurtful. I think it makes him want to win her back even more," added Weintraub.