Singer-actress Jennifer Lopez says she likes a bit of chaos in her relationships.

The 44-year-old singer, who has five-year-old twins, Max and Emme with her third ex-husband Marc Anthony, is currently dating her backup dancer Casper Smart, 26, reported Contactmusic.

"I want a bit of chaos, but I also want safety and order. It's taken me a long time, but if something doesn't feel right, I won't go along with it any more," Lopez said.