I think that sexuality is only attractive when it's natural and spontaneous.
Pursuit and seduction are the essence of sexuality. It's part of the sizzle.
I think it is funny that we were freer about sexuality in the 4th century B.C. It is a little disconcerting.
Part of the sexual revolution is bringing rationality to sexuality - because when you don't embrace sexuality in a normal way, you get the twisted kinds, and the kinds that destroy lives.