By Subhash K Jha

No, this is not one of her chronic attempts at gaining attention. Rakhi Sawant actually met the model Rinky Chaudhary just days before her death, and was shocked by her appearance.

Says Rakhi, "I've a message for young girls.Don't get possessive about your boyfriend.Not worth it.I am so sad to know she killed herself. If I had handled her case (on her reality show) this wouldn't have happened. I had worked with Rinky in Priyadarshan's Malaamal Weekly.

She had done 2-3 films with Priyan Sir.She was so slim and happy. I ran into her very recently at a parlour and was shocked at how much weight she had put on. I advised her to put join a gym.And she did. If I only knew what she was going through I'd have definitely helped her.I am shocked to know that a girl as decent and warm as Rinky died for a man.

Men are not worth killing yourself for.I've been through a broken relationships.Girls become over-possessive of men. Men don't care beyond a point. Ek gayi doosri aayi. Men are only interested in one thing in women..... Once done they lose interest.This is the bitter truth of life.

Men need fresh meat all the time. 90 percent men are like that. As long as their wives don't get to know they are happy doing their own thing."

Rakhi is happy to be single. "My boyfriend too turned out to be a two-timer. I said bye to him.I didn't kill myself. I forgave him. My marriage on television also turned out to be a fiasco.I got to know he was here for publicity, not marriage.

I've no interest in dating boys any longer. I'll directly move to marriage and set up my home, whenever it happens.I've one life and I want to live it well. Rather than waste my time chasing boys I'd pursue God and do His work."