Actor Vivek Oberoi who is seeing a resurgence with two hits believes in a balanced approach towards life

The actor's of the opinion that one should feel defeated even in the darkest phase of their life.

He tells CS, `My family is spiritual-minded and they were huge pillar of support when my career was going through a tough time.

Also, working with cancer patients has changed my perspective about life. When our existence can be so short-lived, it's best to let go of issues like ego, insecurity, cynicism and anger. I now believe in staying positive each day of my life.`