If sex is supposed to be satisfying and anxiety-free once we are safely ensconced in marriage, how come that's when many of us stop wanting it?
A nuclear capable country with an unclear sense of national pride is like a eunuch with a dick.
Sex and hypocrisy. They go together like coffee and cream.
~ The Windup Girl
I think it's a major epidemic in women, faking orgasms. So many women in this world feel like they are put on this planet to please men, that they have to fake, and they never worry about their own pleasure.
Sex is not a mechanical act that fails for lack of technique, and it is not a performance by the male for the audience of the female; it is a continuum of attraction that extends from the simplest conversation and the most innocent touching through the act of coitus.
I think it is funny that we were freer about sexuality in the 4th century B.C. It is a little disconcerting.
We settle for so-so sex because most of us don't know how sexual we could be; we know only how sexual we are. How sexual we are has been shaped by decades of indoctrination by... family and friends, teachers, religious leaders, and romantic partners, not to mention a society that worships a bewildering fusion of childlike sexual innocence and cynical, nihilistic hedonism.... So what is normal? It all depends on what's normal for you.
Part of the sexual revolution is bringing rationality to sexuality - because when you don't embrace sexuality in a normal way, you get the twisted kinds, and the kinds that destroy lives.
If he had boobs, he would do it!
On hubby Nick's willingness to nurse 7-week-old son Camden
I plan to be done. But my husband is kind of a wonder sperm kind of guy.
On having more kids with hubby Ben Affleck
